Xander already can walk 5 to 10 steps without holding on at different surfaces
Xander offering me his toast!
Have finally made my decision to tender. A place where I have worked for 7 years, my first job! Definitely a emotional decision. But a good one to end my dilemma.
Pros:
1. Spending more quality time with xander as I can’t turn back time. Focusing on what matters to me most
2. Rest and recover from operation and preparing for next baby
3. Save my energy and time from liaising and travelling so I can do more important thing etc well-being of Gary, Xander and myself
4. For my mental and physical well being as there is no such thing as part time. Self care. 重新定位
5. Doesn’t want to bring coronavirus home if any
Cons:
1. Lesser income as a household ( Next time go back to full time, can always earn $ back)
2 . Losing my clinical skill (work as locum to upkeep)
Had 2 hours talk with Mdm Toh yesterday and I had different mindset about my situation. She encouraged me to study master. I will also look at things differently. Ultimately good to have own career as it might be hard on Gary to support the family. In case something happen. Initially thinking 🤔of doing real estate, probably more of investment than to become a real estate agent. She said 满街都是
She shared with me not to spend too much money on tuition as the child need time to digest and learn on their own. Discipline is the most important. She said I will need more time to coach the child when he goes primary Sch.
She urged me to self care and stop breastfeeding since baby is 14 month soon. \240I still have a long way to go. Need to take care of myself first
She pointed out that once I move back to Singapore, xander needs to adapt to new home and new Sch, plus I am working. It’s tough on xander! I need to work things out to mitigate that