Normally I write on a move day. \240Yesterday was long and tiring and I never got there.
We began our drive early, a 5 hour drive. \240Very long. \240The roads were rough for different reasons, and for the first time we were carrying full water tank because we were to stay at a relatives house, and we learned their well was broken. \240 We knew that weight would cost us in gas milage, but it also made the rough roads much worse due to the weight and slosh of the water. \240 At one point, it was so bad that we were sure we had a bad tire. \240 So we pulled off the highway to look and all was fine.
Indiana was a treat. \240 Didn’t know what to expect. \240It was beautiful treed roads, nice, inviting looking German towns, and the lighting was amazing due to storm clouds overhead, competing with sunshine. \240The sun would choose a certain ridge, or tree, or hillside and just glow over the shadowed landscape nearby.
Illinois was fine except the roads became narrower and rougher as we neared our destination, the farm of Jim’s cousin. \240 They said to park near their barn.
We arrived, and began down their road. \240We noted the electric line to avoid on one site, and saw two trees that looked too low and heavy branched to pass without damage. \240They were staggered, and we tried to do an “S” curve between them, but it wasn’t working. \240So Jim set out to back up and try again but our RV then couldn’t avoid the electric line.
Those low trees were near the front of the driveway. \240If we could get past them the rest looked easy. \240 So our host suggested we drive over his grass, back to the road and to the barn.
Jim tried, and began immediately to sink into deep spongy soil. \240He tried to go forward, then tried to back up - and wound up pressed against the power line, with the RV tilted and the truck stuck and their poor lawn mangled. \240This in our first few minutes after arrival.
So, we called a tow truck. \240While we waited, I had to figure out how to offer the cat (already in his carrier 6+ hours) a litter box (when his could not be reached in the RV with the slides in) and some water (when our hosts had no well). I also needed a restroom, but again, no flushing available so I asked to avail myself of their weeds in the tree line.
Here I’d barely met them, we had got our truck stuck, damaged their lawn, and both the cat and myself peed on their property - all before we could even visit. \240Great….Major eye roll 🙄 and facepalm.
The tow truck came quickly, and with the persuasion of some winch chains, pulled our truck across more of their lawn back to the road. \240We left 6” deep tracks across about 100 feet of grass - but, thankfully, the truck, the RV leveling legs, and the home’s electricity were unscathed. \240Also there was no sprinkler system or other types of damage to their landscape AND the tow bill was not bad - under $100.
We’d had no breakfast, no lunch, and were hungry and tired and dehydrated by now, about 4pm. \240Though the RV was back on the road, we realized we could not park by the barn as it was also grassed. But we couldn’t “camp” well on their road as it was too far from electricity and they had no water. \240We tried to call for a campground instead, but the only one nearby was full for the night. \240They said we could come early the next day.
So- our gracious host said we could use their guest room. Jim, I, and the cat slept there, after they made us a spaghetti dinner and we looked at old family photos for a time. \240We learned some precious family stories and lore from a new perspective.
We were exhausted by bedtime, but slept very poorly. Thirsty, but could not drink due to their water issues. The bed was smaller than we are used to, and Jim had his CPAP. \240 I figured he needed the sleep more than I did, so I had a sleeping bag on the floor. No pad.
Awkward to use the restroom with no flush… At 2 am Jim walked out to the camper for some aspirin he needed, a good walk in the cold of night but we didn’t want to wake our hosts.
I know our hosts would have remedied some of that had they known, but we were trying not to further inconvenience them.
All of which brings us to today.
We drove early to the new campground. About 20 minutes away. \240Their was some confusion about which spot was ours so it took awhile. \240 Our spot was newly created, and a little dirty and unkept. \240We sank in mud there too, and with rain expected tonight, shoveled extra rocks under our tires and jacks. \240We had about an hour to set up the camper, freshen our clothes, and rejoin the cousins without the RV attached.
Then we drove and had a tour of the town, saw places Jim had visited as a child, and the grave of his aunt - who had died while visiting Jim’s home in Colorado when he was eight. \240This aunt’s then-orphaned daughters were the cousins we were now visiting. Ebbie, here in Staunton, and our next stop takes us to Cathy in McComb, Illinois.
Ebbie and her husband Tom took us to a favorite restaurant with good food and live music. \240We stayed a couple hours, went home exhausted, and called it a day.
At least we got to pay for the meal to help make amends for their lawn… much worse than the pictures below show! \240(This was up to getting stuck, then the tow company dragged us all the way across so we could turn around.)